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Whom will I marry one day? The answer to this question is the second most important decision we will ever make, second only to receiving Jesus as Lord and Savior. We must use wisdom and be guided by God toward finding the right spouse. But many people go after someone if they find them attractive, if it makes sense, if the circumstances line up right, if it feels right, or if others want it. But what if we first waited and sought God’s will and instead, let God reveal who He had designed for us to marry when the time was right? What if it was due to the Holy Spirit’s leading that we were drawn to a person and not mere attraction, intellect, emotion, circumstances, or due to anyone else’s desires and opinions?
In this book, author, teacher, and pastor Chris Dubois presents an alternative refreshing approach to dating that is often absent in the modern dating scene. Contemporary dating usually involves sexual compromise, unrealistic expectations, confusion, drama, rejection, and heartbreak. But it does not have to be this way! Dating does not have to involve great emotional pain and sexual compromise. Instead, it can lay a foundation for a fantastic future marriage that glorifies God and brings great blessings to a couple’s life. Marriage is God’s will for most people. But the key to a successful future together is how we go into marriage. The foundation often determines the result. Are we building on the sand or upon the rock of Jesus?

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